I’m going to be careful writing this because Squarespace doesn’t like sexually explicit content.

Just know that a lot of what I’m talking about involves playing with power dynamics in a consensual way where both parties agree to it and are into it.

In a lot of these scenarios that people in this community are interested in, men are typically at the top of that power dynamic… and we’re going to talk about that.

A lot.

From talking to men in this community in depth over the last two years - particularly about power dynamics - I’ve found that most men don’t want to feel like an asshole.

They enjoy the obedience from women, but they don’t know how to be commanding without being a tyrant… and that’s what this whole chapter - and the course at large - is about.

Because… go too far into that dynamic unskillfully and even the men start to feel uncomfortable.

This is a good thing, and we’re going to talk for a long time about how to balance these things out so that everybody is having a good time and you don’t feel like a jerk.

There are certain things that are standard in this community - but we’re not going to start there.

We’re going to get to the obvious things like:

  • Safety

  • Aftercare

  • Fantasy VS Reality

  • Limits

…but first, we’re going to talk about some of the things that might not seem so immediately obvious or that I haven’t seen talked about in our community.

Just to start with something new.

Some of the new things we’re going to talk about are:

  • Dual leadership

  • Fantasy VS Truth

  • Options in Leadership Styles

  • Dynamics That are Cruel

  • Caring for Emotions

  • Uplifting Leadership

  • Firm VS Aggressive

  • Realism

I know it’s a lot to cover, but each part will be short, easy-to-read, and colorful.

Next page: “Dual Leadership.”